I am a mild sort of wom­an­iz­er and I’m try­ing to get over it. I’m always talk­ing about some ran­dom girl that I think is hot, and basi­cal­ly being a big fat mid­dle school kid. I think my friend nailed the prob­lem when she said:

i just think that when you are so pre­oc­cu­pied dai­ly with the fact that you ain’t got a woman, the woman starts to become some sor­ta gen­er­al object (place-filler) instead of a spe­cif­ic per­son… hence the “wom­an­iz­ing.”

Per­haps becom­ing less occu­pied with my per­cep­tion that hav­ing no girl = lack will get me head­ed in the right direc­tion.