Generalization: Everyone in this world has seen or knows someone that they find so amazingly attractive in all ways that it hurts to be in their presence. I’ve got three girls that do this. one in my monday anthro class, one in my tuesday/thursday anthro class, and one on the cross-country team. i say everyone in the world has this, although i truly only know that this paradigm exists for me. it hurts because they are too much of everything for me. especially too good. perhaps my self-esteem is too low or too skewed. i think i am attractive enough, but i do not think anyone else thinks so. my personal self-esteem is fine, my social self-esteem is negligible. ain’t no thang but a chicken wing, right?